Posted 3 weeks ago

domestic-discipline:

I am asked this from time to time, and I just want to go on the record to say yes I believe it is perfectly within the husband’s rights to spank his wife. And the wife should remain still and obedient for any spanking her husband gives her.

I am not saying it is okay for a man to beat a woman, on the contrary a woman should not ever let herself be beaten out of anger or hatred.  A man should never hit a woman in the face with a closed or open hand, for that matter should never strike her in any way other than on her bottom or backs of legs.  My personal belief the wife should only be spanked or whipped in the traditional method.  Spankings are given with the open hand or an implement suited for this job such as a wooden paddle, wooden spoon, hairbrush, or possibly a rubber soul slipper.  Whippings should be administered with tools such as a leather strap/belt, switch, rattan cane or any suitable flexible rod, however he must show caution when using such implements.  The point of any physical punishment is to correct a certain behavior or attitude not just to beat her.  The wife should certainly expect to have redness, welts, bruises and other marks on her bottom but it should never break the skin, and if it does then it should stop immediately.  

Other areas a husband has the right to punish his wife is striking the palms of her hands are soles of her feet with an appropriate implement.  But this should only be done to correct attempts at stopping spankings, such as putting her hands in the way or kicking her feet in the path.  Putting her hand on her bottom during a spanking is not only an act of defiance but can be quite dangerous if her husband does not react in time possibly striking her fingers with an implement.

The wife should always be spanked on her bare bottom never over clothing or panties.  It is also within her husband’s rights to have her completely undress for punishment.  It’s my personal belief that the wife should always be completely naked to receive her spanking. I also feel she should undress herself and stand naked before him as a sign of obedience and acceptance.  However this should never be done in front of anyone but her husband.  If the husband chooses to have witnesses only the portion of her bottom that is to be spanked should be visible.  The husband must protect his wife’s modesty.

Husband and wives will argue and always have difference of opinions.  This is to be expected husband should not be quick to spank his wife over an argument on what is the best yogurt or where they should go for dinner.  Spanking should only be given when a defiant attitude, deliberate disobedience, or putting herself into danger is apparent.  And if a situation arises were punishment has been earned than the husband should not shy away from a ministering a painful spanking for correction.  As the wife you should not expect to be spanked for silly things like not calling him Sir or having dinner ready at certain time.  Your relationship should be one of loving and understanding, however if your husband decides to spank you for whatever reason, you should immediately stop talking and showed no signs of defiance.  I can tell you girls from experience that many times my mentor chose not to spank me because I stopped talking and stood patiently in front of him waiting for his instructions.  He saw this as an obedient action and saw no further reason to a minister punishment.  However if you are going to be spanked, except this fact and do whatever you can to ensure the spanking is effective and as it should be painful.  Once you are told to get ready stop whatever you’re doing, undress herself putting your clothing away neatly and out of sight.  Present yourself to him in the standard fashion or ritual which is commonly used in your relationship.  Without argument or discussion allow yourself to be placed into the position he prefers, making sure your bottom is in the proper position and can be easily smacked.  Do not tense up trying to keep your bottom as relaxed as possible to ensure that each swat will give the maximum amount of stinging.  Tensing your bottom may reduce the stinging you feel at the time, but can clause deeper tissue bruising and longer discomfort.  Whimpers, yelps, and crying is expected and you should not hold back these emotions.  However never talk or beg during the spanking.  The time for that had passed once your husband ordered you to prepare yourself.  If you’re to be whipped, again prepare yourself in the standard rituals for your relationship. Bend over an object, or touch your toes accordingly making sure your feet are apart so you can comfortably bend forward and arch your back so your bottom will be at the highest point.  Find a comfortable place for your hands to hold onto.  Such as the chair legs, grasping your ankles, or fingers under your toes and tell yourself that your hands are fastened to that location and cannot possibly move.  If you can convince yourself of this you have a greater chance of not trying to interrupt your correction.  This may have gotten a little longer than I intended, but to recap - yes I believe the husband have the right to spank his wife.

Posted 3 weeks ago

domestic-discipline:

I wanted to talk a bit about giving a spanking.  Not as a person who gives them herself, but one who receives them.  Of course I know there are many ways to administer physical punishment so as I speak about how a solid no-nonsense spanking should be given it’s of course through my personal experiences and beliefs on how it should be.  In the end it’s my duty to accept however the punishment is given, but that does not stop me from having an opinion about it.

This is a punishment spanking, it is meant to be unpleasant and as the word implies punish a behavior or action.  First a tool should be selected, the disciplinarian needs to know exactly what implement he will be using to administer the spanking.  A punishment spanking requires the use of a spanking tool, this is not your hand.  Hand spankings should be reserved for lighter less serious offenses.  Hand spankings are also more personal and even considered more loving, this too is not in accordance with a punishment.  The disciplinarian should mentally choose which implement he will be using and then commit to that implement not deciding to change it just before a spanking is given.  Also do not use multiple spanking implements.  As a submissive that is being punished for a disobedient act suddenly having the spanking stop so he can switch to a spoon, or strap, just to stop again switching to a different implement a few minutes later turns the act of correction into some type of game. Personally I feel makes the disciplinarian look somewhat unprofessional and unprepared.  Like a child in a candy store jumping from one treat to the next.  When choosing an implement you first must decide what type of physical correction is going to be administered?  A spanking means you’re going to choose a tool such as a wooden paddle, hairbrush, wooden spoon or some type of rigid hard item which can deliver a stinging blow.  A whipping means you going to choose something such as a switch, cane, strap, cord or some type of flexible lightweight rod which will deliver a sharp concentrated lash.  Once you have chosen a tool you can decide if you will have it ready in the area where you plan to administer the spanking, or if she will have to retrieve the implement and bring it to you.  Either way can be very effective.  Being sent off to get whatever is going to be used on you can be very humbling, and on the other hand coming into a room and seeing the tool that will be used can immediately send butterflies into a girl’s tummy and upper throat.  Certain tools such as a switch is always better if she is sent out to cut and prepare it herself.  This is part of a ritual and is more effective than if it is already trimmed and cleaned.  

Now that you have the tool selected, and you know how it’s going to be presented then next you need to know where/what location you will be ministering the spanking.  I am a big believer in rituals, so having a special location you consistently use I feel is always best.  So when you say “okay young lady, go to the punishment room and wait for me” or “it’s time we take a trip to the shed” she knows exactly what is going to happen without you just blurting out “I’m going to beat your ass.”  The room you choose should already be prepared beforehand with whatever pieces of furniture or tools you need with the exception of the spanking implement if you intend for her to retrieve it.  The room/area is to be clean and free of clutter and not full of toys or stuffy’s more professional than playful.  I completely understand that not all situations can you be prepared for, and ready to go.  There will be times that certain behaviors may require immediate correction and other times you may be traveling far from the environment you have set up.  However you should be prepared for both these events and have a plan if such actions are necessary.  Ideally preparing a room beforehand is still the best policy, and postponing punishment until everything is in place is worth the time.  You can certainly have her stand in the corner or take a bath as you prepare.  Having her prepare for a spanking is part of a good punishment ritual is well.  Having a special punishment outfit, nightgown or pajamas she would have to put on before going to the designated room, or the knowledge that once in the room she had to remove all of her clothing and put them away neatly and out of sight will certainly get her ready both physically and mentally.

Okay now that you’re both in the room and she is standing before you in her embarrassing punishment dress or as naked as a newborn then this is the time you need to have a serious and controlled discussion with her about the behavior that she is being corrected for.  She needs to be told that this is not for play but a serious punishment.  Do not go easy on her, scold her explain in detail how her behavior has earned her this punishment.  Explain what is expected out of her in the future what to do to avoid further punishment.  This is very important, disciplinarians that do not scold properly or just assume she knows exactly why she’s being punished are making a mistake.  A good scolding should have her remorseful or even in tears before the first spank ever lands.  If you are unsure on how to scold properly take the time to do some research.  Also scolding is not yelling, and not belittling her it is explaining exactly how she disappointed you.  And for most submissive’s disappointing someone they care about can be more punishment than any spanking.  Do not rush the scolding, take your time and let each word sink in.  This is not the time for her to argue with you or give her side of the story.  She is only to listen and to answer any of your questions with yes or no or yes sir no sir.  The time for her side of the story past as soon as she was ordered to get ready for punishment.  As a disciplinarian if you allow her to continue to argue with you, backtalk you, or give you attitude and you have lost control of the situation and you need to regain it quickly.  It is not a game to punish someone, and she should not disrespect you

Once everything that needed to be said had been said then it’s time to move to the penalty phase of the punishment, which in this case is to administer the spanking.  You should have her move into position quickly such as over your knee, bending over a chair, touching her toes, etc.  By the way telling her to touch her toes does not mean putting her hands on her knees or grabbing her ankles, it means putting her fingertips to her toes, or placing her fingers underneath her toes.  If she is not capable of actually bending forward to touch her toes then the directions should be placed your hands on your knees.  It is a form of disrespect to tell her to touch her toes and then she only bends far enough to put her hands on her knees.  Don’t let her get by with that.  Once you have her in the proper position you can give her any further instructions even if she’s heard them before, such as “keep still, no kicking or touching your bottom.”  Reminding her that her only job is to stay in place and not to try to prevent her spanking in any way.  Excessive moving, or trying to block her bottom with her hands is not only disrespectful and shows lack of obedience it can also be dangerous.  Yelping, crying, and screaming should be expected but there is no reason for her to talk or ask or beg for anything.  She should not say any words at all.  Begging or pleading is an attempt to reduce her punishment and should be treated the same way as if she was trying to block her bottom with her hands or move out of the way.  Excessive noise can also be addressed, however it is okay to go lenient on this.

The first smack, should come quickly and hard.  It should sting quite a bit and make her yelp out in both shock and pain.  She is being punished and there is no such thing as a warm up spanking from someone being punished.  The only reason he would want to use a warm up spanking is to lower her sensitivity and make the spanking more enjoyable.  That is not supposed to happen with the punishment.  The spanking should continue had a hard steady pace and go for quite some time.  A disciplinarian needs to remember that she has chosen this lifestyle and he should not be timid about delivering a sound spanking.  Spank her with enough force to ensure a very sore bruised bottom, she is not made out of glass you’re not going to break her.  There was no need to set the amount of strokes or a set time, you certainly can do this if you wish but being she is being punished it’s better to continue the punishment until the disciplinarian feels that he has reached the level of remorse he is looking for.  This could be different on any given day.  Now that the spanking was over it is perfectly okay to be tender and forgiving.  She has taken her punishment therefore whatever her misdeed has been paid for.  You can hold her as she cries, or let her know that it’s over and it will not be discussed again.  If she was good and remain still for her spanking she should be praised for her obedience.  Most women are the most submissive right after a punishment spanking.  Showing her tenderness and love is what she needs most at this point and will ensure her continued devotion to you.

Posted 2 months ago
oprintesa:

Love the coloring and marks here

oprintesa:

Love the coloring and marks here

Posted 3 months ago

Asian girls are so cute to spank..

Posted 3 months ago

domestic-discipline:

Occasionally I get angry and  not in any mood to be told what to do. this happened the other day with my mentor, He told me I was going to get a spanking for something that I felt did not deserve one.  It was silly and I felt he was just being mean. so instead of preparing myself to be spanked, I decided to argue  and fight him over it.  I became so defiant in the last thing I wanted to do was submit for a spanking.  It escalated to the point where he forced me over the back of the sofa and whipped me so hard with a belt it ended up cutting in some places, and he ended up leaving me alone for the rest of the night.

 It was not for some hours later that I started to realize why it got out of hand. it was through my actions and willful behavior that I defied him. I may not have felt that I deserved to be spanked and certainly not as severely as I was, but through my actions I turned a somewhat hard hand spanking into a beating.  I brought it on myself by allowing my emotions to override my duty.  In the end I received the spanking that I deserved.

photo source: http://www.firmhandspanking.com/

Posted 4 months ago

groupsofnakedgirls:

  • Prison newbies made to strip! Source unknown (sorry)

this is from, SS experiment love camp (1976)

Posted 5 months ago

A diligent mother instructing her willful daughter.

Posted 6 months ago
Posted 7 months ago
thepenitents:

sore-ce?

Next time she will not be late.

thepenitents:

sore-ce?

Next time she will not be late.

Posted 8 months ago
sadisticgames:

"Go out onto the back porch, just as you are, and stand with your hands at your side.", He said, out of the blue. 
"Yes Sir.", came the immediate and oh so simple response. 
The girl has been standing there now for twenty minutes. Just standing there, shivering in the cold rain, exposed for all to see. 
Not asking why she must do so, not crying, begging to know what she has done to deserve this. 
It is enough to know that He wishes for her to be here, and that she can obey. 
Perhaps it’s silly, but no matter the task, not matter how trivial it may seem, she is always so happy when He tells her to do something that she knows she can do. 
When she knows that she can carry out His command, that she can make Him happy, that is where she finally finds peace. 

This is actually a self-portrait from Sandra Torralba A young artist with a beautiful insight.  You can see more of her work at http://www.sandratorralba.com/art-projects/self-portraits

sadisticgames:

"Go out onto the back porch, just as you are, and stand with your hands at your side.", He said, out of the blue. 

"Yes Sir.", came the immediate and oh so simple response. 

The girl has been standing there now for twenty minutes. Just standing there, shivering in the cold rain, exposed for all to see. 

Not asking why she must do so, not crying, begging to know what she has done to deserve this. 

It is enough to know that He wishes for her to be here, and that she can obey. 

Perhaps it’s silly, but no matter the task, not matter how trivial it may seem, she is always so happy when He tells her to do something that she knows she can do. 

When she knows that she can carry out His command, that she can make Him happy, that is where she finally finds peace. 

This is actually a self-portrait from Sandra Torralba A young artist with a beautiful insight.  You can see more of her work at http://www.sandratorralba.com/art-projects/self-portraits